Your Story | Your Music
Every wedding is unique, and the music should be too.
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How to Choose Your Ceremony Music
Let me begin with a little reassurance: there is no right or wrong way to have a wedding ceremony. The most beautiful weddings are the ones that reflect the couple getting married and my job is to help you create a soundtrack that fits. Close your eyes and picture yourself walking down the aisle. If it makes you emotional or gets you excited, that might be “it”!! It’s your story, told with your music!
A Few Questions to Get You Started
Instead of asking, "What songs should I pick?" try asking yourself:
Do I want my ceremony to feel:
✨ Romantic and dreamy?
✨ Elegant and timeless?
✨ Joyful and celebratory?
✨ Modern and meaningful?
✨ A little bit of all of the above?
Once you know the feeling you're trying to create, the song choices become much easier.
If you're feeling overwhelmed by all the options, don't worry. Share your vision with me and I’ll put it all together. That's why I'm here. I'll help you choose music that feels natural, personal, and perfectly suited to your wedding day. 🌿🎶
Because years from now, when you hear those songs again, I want them to bring you right back to that moment when you saw each other and thought, "This is it." 💕
Your processional music provides the soundtrack for some of the most memorable moments of your ceremony. Before choosing your songs, let's look at the typical order of entrances for family members, the wedding party, and, of course, the bride. Each musical selection helps tell your story.
Wedding Processional Order
Please note: Every wedding is unique. Use this as a guide, then make it your own.
1a. Officiant, Groom & Best Man
The officiant, groom, and best man enter (in that order) and take their places at the wedding arch/altar.
1b. Officiant, Groom, Best Man & Groomsmen
The officiant, groom, best man, and groomsmen enter (in that order) and take their places at the wedding arch/altar.
2. Groom's Parents
The groom's parents walk down the aisle together and take their seats on the right side of the ceremony space.
3. Mother of the Bride
The mother of the bride may walk down the aisle on her own or be escorted by a family member. She then takes her seat in the front row on the left side.
4a. Wedding Party
The bridesmaids and groomsmen walk down the aisle in pairs. Upon reaching the wedding arch/altar, they separate and take their places on their respective sides.
4b. Wedding Party
The groomsmen enter one at a time and take their places at the wedding arch/altar. The bridesmaids then enter individually and do the same.
5. Maid or Matron of Honor
The maid or matron of honor enters last and takes her place next to where the bride will stand.
6. Ring Bearer and/or Flower Girl
Traditionally, the ring bearer and/or flower girl enter just before the bride. They may join the wedding party or sit with family members after reaching the front.
7. Bride & Escort
Finally, the moment everyone has been waiting for! The bride makes her grand entrance accompanied by her chosen escort. Traditionally, this is the bride's father, but the bride may choose anyone meaningful to walk with her down the aisle.
*Note: Don’t worry about walking exactly on the beat or timing everything to a specific recording. The beauty of having me play live means that I can time the songs to you! I will watch as you and your loved ones make your way down the aisle and end the music when you get to your spots for the ceremony. I can loop sections of songs to make them longer, cut sections out to make them shorter, and even turn an up-tempo song into a slow, beautiful ballad.
Prelude Music
Welcome music begins about 30 minutes before the ceremony starts. As your guests arrive and take their seats, beautiful harp music sets the tone for the celebration ahead.
Choose 10 to 12 pieces for 30 minutes of music.
Soft & Romantic Favorites
Golden Hour – JVKE
Dreamy, modern, and full of warmth.
Can't Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley
A wedding classic that never loses its charm.
A Thousand Years – Christina Perri
Romantic and flowing, especially beautiful for a bridal entrance.
Over the Rainbow – Israel Kamakawiwoʻole version
Gentle, heartfelt, and uplifting.
Perfect – Ed Sheeran
One of today's most requested love songs.
All of Me – John Legend
Intimate and emotional without feeling overly dramatic.
Turning Page – Sleeping at Last
Tender, cinematic, and deeply romantic.
Make You Feel My Love – Adele / Bob Dylan
Sweet, sincere, and timeless.
The Luckiest – Ben Folds
Warm and meaningful with beautiful lyrics behind it.
Ave Maria – Schubert or Bach/Gounod
Elegant, reverent, and perfect for a traditional ceremony.
Gabriel’s Oboe - Ennio Morricone
Lush, emotional, and deeply moving.
Simple Gifts - American Folk Song
Joyful, graceful, and timelessly American.
Nimrod from Enigma Variations - Edward Elgar
Majestic, heartfelt, and beautifully reflective.
Romantic Flight - John Powel
Sweeping, adventurous, and full of wonder.
Moon River - Henry Mancini
Warm, nostalgic, and effortlessly romantic.
River Flows in You - Yiruma
Gentle, flowing, and quietly expressive.
Dawn from Pride and Prejudice - Dario Marianelli
Delicate, hopeful, and exquisitely romantic.
Beauty and the Beast - Alen Menken
Timeless, romantic ballad
Officiant, Groom, Best Man
(& Groomsmen)
See 1a and 1b above
Marry Me - Train
Tender and flowing
Can't Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley
A wedding classic that never loses its charm.
Canon in D – Pachelbel
The quintessential wedding processional.
Groom's Parents and
Mother of the Bride
See 2 and 3 above
Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring
Graceful, joyful, and deeply meaningful.
Air on the G String
Sophisticated and beautifully lyrical.
Turning Page – Sleeping at Last
Tender, cinematic, and deeply romantic.
Ave Maria – Schubert or Bach/Gounod
Elegant, reverent, and perfect for a traditional ceremony.
Wedding Party
See 4a, 4b, 5 & 6 above
Can't Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley
A wedding classic that never loses its charm.
Canon in D – Pachelbel
The quintessential wedding processional.
Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton
Warm, joyful, and welcoming.
Turning Page – Sleeping at Last
Tender, cinematic, and deeply romantic.
Princess Diaries
Graceful, and deeply meaningful.
Hallelujah
Sophisticated and beautifully lyrical.
Edelweiss - from The Sound of Music
Bride's Grand Entrance
See 7 above
Golden Hour – JVKE
Dreamy, modern, and full of warmth.
Can't Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley
A wedding classic that never loses its charm.
A Thousand Years – Christina Perri
Romantic and flowing, especially beautiful for a bridal entrance.
Over the Rainbow – Israel Kamakawiwoʻole version
Gentle, heartfelt, and uplifting.
Bridal Chorus – Wagner
Timeless and elegant.
Love Me Like You Do - Max Martin
Modern, flowing, romantic
During the Ceremony
Many couples also include music during special moments of the ceremony.
Lighting a Unity Candle
Hand-Fasting or Tying the Knot
Communion or Prayer
Sand-Pouring Ritual
A Special Reading or Reflection
A Moment of Remembrance
Recessional
And one of my favorite moments to plan musically is when you hear “Mr. and Mrs.” for the first time! The right song can turn that into a true “we did it!” moment, something that feels triumphant, happy, and full of love, so when you walk back down the aisle it feels like the celebration has officially begun.
Wedding March - Mendelssohn
Married Life - from the movie “UP”
Here Comes the Sun - The Beatles
Marry You - Bruno Mars
Ode to Joy - Beethoven (alt title “Joyful, Joyful)
If there are any songs that mean something to you as a couple, or even music that reminds you of home, family, or a special season in your life, send them my way and I’ll help you find the perfect fit (and harp-friendly options). I can’t wait to make this day feel magical for you!
- Julie
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